- Faith No More (The Real Thing)
The expression "to live in the moment" is so overused, it's become a cliché. Yet it remains an unattainable goal for almost all of us.
That's because our minds are based on thoughts. And thoughts exist out of the moment. They are made up of memories of the past and worries about the future. These thoughts are so pervasive that they monopolize our lives...and overshadow our present moments.
Like John Lennon said, "Life is what happens to you while you're busy making other plans."
Starting this week, let's vow to start exercising momentness (myself included). It's not that hard - simply a matter of breaking bad habits.
Give yourself an hourly reminder. Post it on your computer. Set an alert on your PDA or computer or watch. Give yourself some type of invasive interruptor to remind you to snap back in the moment.
You don't have to stop what you're doing. Just pay attention to where you are.
If you're talking to someone, truly listen. Watch their body language. Stop thinking of what you're going to say next. Just listen.
If you're working, stop and really notice what you're working on. What is the work? How are you doing it? Don't think about the finished product. Or what others will say about your work. Just concentrate on the process.
If you're walking or driving, don't think about the destination. Notice where you are. How are you walking? Feel your feet hit the ground. How fast are you driving? Feel the tires rolling over the pavement.
Just take a moment and bask in your moment. It's the only thing that is truly, completely real. Don't miss it.
I'd love to hear how this works out for you. Share your experience, frustration, joys, etc. in the comments section to this entry. We're all members of OOMA (Out Of the Moment Anonymous). And we can do this. One moment at a time. :)
The Master gives himself up to whatever the moment brings. (v. 50)